Do you feel like you're always chasing the people in your life?
- Do you have this nagging feeling of being "too much"?
- Are you known for sending 10 text messages in a row, and then getting pissed if someone doesn't text back fast enough?
- Do you have trouble trusting folks?
- When you're in a relationship, are you always worried your partner is about to leave you?
- Do you have patterns of gravitating toward partners who are unavailable, disinterested... or even outright dismissive?
If you said yes to any of the above, then you might tend towards anxious attachment in your relationships.
I totally get it — that was me too.
So yeah, hey. I'm Ariel.
I'm the author of three books including Offbeat Bride and From Sh!tshow To Afterglow. I teach using tools of storytelling and evidence-backed research. My focus is always on experiential learning — I only teach the lessons I've lived.
I've been giving people relationship advice for 15 years, and I'm here to say that attachment issues are one of the biggest ways people unconsciously fuck over their relationships — myself included!
Anxious attachment is a completely natural mammalian adaptation. You're not broken — but you do need to understand how your attachment issues drive you to subconsciously make choices that may not serve you.
If you've wrestled with this stuff, then you already know how anxious attachment can subconsciously drive all sorts of behaviors in your life — the obsessing, the chasing, the constant fear of rejection. If you're like me, you've looked at choices you've made and been like WHAT THE FUCK WHY DO I KEEP DOING THAT!?
The good news is that you CAN heal it.
In this course, I share the process I've worked through over the last five years to recognize, befriend, and heal my anxious attachment. Over the course of 9 video segments, I walk you through how to know when your attachment system is triggered, and practical ways to heal through it so you can make different choices.
If my anxiously attached ass can do it, yours can too.
Changing how you relate to your anxiety can change your relationships and transform your life...
Here's what others have to say:
As someone who didn’t immediately identify as an “anxious attacher,” I was doubly wowed by the actionable, accessible lessons Ariel imparts (as well as the revelation that indeed I do have anxious attachment issues). If you’ve ill-advisedly chased anything out of reach—a person, a job, a friend—and wondered if you’re the reason you didn’t attain it, this is for you.
As someone who's struggled with the pain of getting hooked by the zing of anxious attachments in romantic, friend, and work relationships, it helps to know I'm not alone on my healing journey.
Ariel's Healing Anxious Attachment course is like having a friend right there to see me, offer key resources, and remind me I can do it!
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