Hi, I'm Ariel Meadow Stallings

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Hi, I'm Ariel! I'm the author of three books, including From Sh!tshow To Afterglow, PROS BEFORE BROS, and three editions of Offbeat Bride.

My writing likes to poke at the soft places of overlap between culture, identity, relationships, and personal development.

I got my start in the mid-’90s editing a rave magazine, graduated the Columbia Publishing Course in 2001, and then spent most of the ’00s doing marketing for corporations like the Seattle Times, Microsoft, and Amazon. I've dedicated the last 13 years to managing my bootstrapped digital media company, the Offbeat Empire LLC.

My work has reached about 50 million people in the last decade through the Offbeat Empire’s web and social media properties like offbeatbride.com.

So yeah, that's the career stuff. (If you want more, that's what Linkedin is for!)

However, like you, I contain multitudes...

I'm a 47-year-old small business owner. I'm middle aged and middle-class. I live in Seattle with my 12-year-old son. I'm an independent researcher obsessed with business fields like digital publishing and the passion economy, psychological topics like attachment theory and secular mindfulness, and spiritual stuff like non-duality and the Enneagram. I'm a dancer with a daily devotional practice. I'm bisexual and currently flying solo. I'm a daily meditator and weekly weightlifter. I'm an Enneatype 3w4. I'm my own trophy wife. I'm a spiritual adolescent and a chameleon and a projection screen for your own internalized battles with aspects of yourself.

This is all to say, I'm just one more finger of the same divine hand as you. (Hello, my fellow fingers! 👋)

You can find me over on @findyourafterglow on Insta... but if you want to really want to get to know me, buy The Afterglow Bundle.

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Wait, wtf is this bundle thing?

My most recent book From Shitshow to Afterglow is all about my shitshow... but if you want to know how things are going now, I invite you to purchase my The Afterglow Bundle.

You'll get instant access to my most intimate work, including my three online courses, a massive library of my most personal essays, private monthly vlogs, guided meditations, and more. Oh and you'll also get 15 deleted chapters from Sh!tshow ... the stuff that was too weird, too raw, too dirty for mainstream publication.

The Afterglow Bundle is your best way to get intimate with my current body of work. 

BUY NOW $247


Get a sneak peek today! 

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I'll send you the first video segment of the course 💕 Ariel